My view on life is that we are here to learn, to grow as individuals and to realise that life is an adventure with many things to show us. I believe that we walk this path many times until we have learned all our lessons. I know I am learning every day.
I have learnt not to be so uptight about time keeping - it does not matter if I am a little bit late, I don't have to break my neck trying to keep appointments.
I have learned to listen to my angels, to trust them and turn to them when I need them, they are always there for me. They always were, I just didn't recognise the fact.
I have learned to be patient - if something is going to happen, it will eventually and I must not push it.
I have learned to stop being such a control freak! Let other people take the lead, take some of the burden if they are willing, let other people help me. It makes for a smoother ride.
I have learned that there is a master plan for us all - I have felt it very strongly lately, as if I am being pushed along a railway track towards my destination. Don't push against it, go with the flow. I am a happier person for doing that.
I have learned to like myself for who I am, and to accept the fact that I am not perfect, that I am very occasionally wrong (!) and I am now comfortable in my own skin. I do not need everybody to like me anymore.
I have learned to love and to be loved. The hardest lesson of all but the one that brings you the most rewards. I recognise that I am fiercely protective of those I love, be they friend, family or lover, but at the same time, I need to feel protected and safe too. I consider myself very lucky that I have friends and family and parts of my jigsaw whom I love and who love me in return. If you learn nothing else as you travel, learn that lesson.
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Thursday, 17 May 2007
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Morten Harket
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Favourite Albums
Favourite Tracks
- a-ha - Living a Boys Adventure Tale
- One Night Only - Just For Tonight
- Snow Patrol - Chasing Cars
- 30 Seconds to Mars - Attack
- Linkin Park - What I've Done
- Goo Goo Dolls - Before It's Too Late
- John Denver - Annie's Song
- Pachelbel - Canon in D Major
- Underworld - Sunshine Theme
- Chicane - Saltwater
- Martin Tillman - Odessa
- Salif Keita - Tomorrow
- A-ha - Stay on These Roads
- The Cure - Lovesong
- Moulin Rouge - Come What May
- Mission - Butterfly on a Wheel
- Dishwalla - Somewhere in the Middle
- The Snowman - Walking in the Air
- In the Bleak Midwinter
- Bon Jovi - Make a Memory
- Linkin Park - Shadow of the Day
- Trading Yesterday - One Day
- 30 Seconds to Mars - The Kill
- Foo Fighters - Walking After You
- The Bravery - An Honest Mistake
- Funeral For a Friend - Into Oblivion
- Simple Minds - Don't You Forget About Me
- The Cult - She Sells Sanctuary
- Rogue Traders - Voodoo Child
- Aerosmith - I Don't Wanna Miss a Thing
- 30 Seconds to Mars - Modern Myth
- Bon Jovi - Always
- John Hiatt - Have a Little Faith
- Pink - Leave Me Alone (I'm Lonely)
- Bon Jovi - Have a Nice Day
- Blondie - Maria
- River City People - Walking on Ice
- Bon Jovi - I Love This Town
- Bodyrockers - I Like The Way You Move
- Republica - Ready To Go
- The Cult - Edie
- Bon Jovi- These Days
- Def Leppard - Animal
- Blue Oyster Cult - Don't Fear the Reaper
- River City People - California Dreamin'
- Bon Jovi - Born to Be My Baby
- Dishwalla - Until I Wake Up
- Timbaland - Apologize
- Pretenders - Hymn To Her
- Bon Jovi - Wanted Dead or Alive
- Muse - Supermassive Black Hole
- The Cult - Firewoman
- Pink - U and Ur Hand
- Bon Jovi - Its My Life
- The Calling - Wherever You Will Go
- Funeral For a Friend - Walk Away
- Muse - Starlight
- Journey - Don't Stop Believing
- Bon Jovi - I'll Be There For You
- Sisters of Mercy - Lucretia
- U2 - One
- Linkin Park - Numb
- Editors - Smokers Outside the Hospital Doors
- Bon Jovi - Welcome to Wherever You Are
- Muse - Map of the Problematique
- Sisters of Mercy - Dominion
- U2 - With or Without You
- Bon Jovi - Story of My Life
- Dave Matthews Band - The Space Between
- Dishwalla - Every Little Thing
- The Police - Every Breath You Take
- David Bowie - This Is Not America
- Goo Goo Dolls - Stay With You
- Muse - Time is Running Out
- Jeff Wayne - War of The Worlds
- David Essex - Winters Tale
- Monkees - Daydream Believer (with a twist!)
- Bryan Ferry - Slave to Love
- Ben E King - Stand By Me
- Simon & Garfunkel - Bridge Over Troubled Water
- John Denver - Country Road
- Cockney Rebel - Make Me Smile
- Abba - Dancing Queen
- The Carpenters - Close to You
- Bryan Ferry - Don't Stop the Dance
- Soft Cell - Say Hello, Wave Goodbye
- Kylie Minogue - On a Night Like This
- Danii Minogue - All I Wanna Do
- All Saints - Black Coffee
- Mika - Any Other World
- Natalie Imbruglia - Torn
- Massive Attack - Teardrop
- Enya - Evening Falls
- Madonna - Crazy For You
- Duran Duran - Come Undone
- Cher - Believe
- Keane - Bedshaped
- Mr. Mister - Broken Wings
- James Blunt - High
- Crowded House - Don't Dream it's Over
- The Cranberries - Linger
- Enriques Iglesias - Hero
- All About Eve - Martha's Harbour
- Damien Rice - The Blowers Daughter
- Coldplay - Fix You
- Eurythmics - Miracle of Love
- Duran Duran - Ordinary World
- Bronski Beat - Smalltown Boy
- Dire Straits - Brothers in Arms
- Spandau Ballet - Through the Barricades
- Enigma - Sadeness
- Sarah Brightman - Eden
- Gregorian - Voyage Voyage
- Natasha Bedingfield - Unwritten
- Simon Webbe - Coming Around Again
- 5ive - Keep On Movin'
- Lighthouse Family - High
- Mika - Grace Kelly
- Sandi Thom - I Wish I Was a Punk Rocker
- Levellers - What a Beautiful Day
- Scissor Sisters - I Don't Feel like Dancing
- The Cure - Friday I'm in Love
- The Chemical Brothers - Galvanize
- Fat Boy Slim - Right Here (inc Matrix best scene)
- Andreas Johnson - Glorious
- Billy Idol - Flesh for Fantasy
- Alphaville - Forever Young
- Queen - Who Wants to Live Forever
- Art Garfunkel - Bright Eyes
- Human League - Electric Dreams